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Well into the new year….
March 2, 2009, 1:40 am
Filed under: Uncategorized

It has been such a busy couple of months.   My book desiging has been limited to creating gifts for the holidays, postcards and greeting cards, and adding to our family yearbooks.  I desperately want to get back to designing.  I love it.  I want to finish our baby books.  I have started several of them and have been organizing photos to finish them.  That is a task and a half.  The photo organizing.  It is time consuming but so much fun.  I have been indulging in the memories as I browse.  It is amazing to me that we have created 9 individuals.  Sometimes I herd them like cattle for the sake of expediency but I really celebrate their individuality.  Each is an amazing individual full of potential.  Little Riley is curled up on my lap as I write this.  She is so amazing to me.  Little teeny features, big vocabulary.  ” Well actually…” is one of her phrases.

I realize with Riley that we are physically connected to our ancestors whether we are aware of it or not, with Riley I created a deck of playing cards that has her whole family a couple of generations back, she sees pictures in our albums or as I’m sorting them on the computer and she knows their names and sometimes stories about them.  It is cool to me that she has that photo and story connection with them as well as the biological one.

I am taking a political philosophy class, teaching Shakespeare and mothering.   I am as busy as everyone else.  My hands are in many pots and I recognize the value of the family history pot.  It is a treasure, stories, memories, lessons…  The designing part for me is icing on the cake, my life is truly full when I am creating beauty.  Life is great.



Giving gifts that change lives

I am not a shopper. I have to do it, we have a very large family, we go through gallons of milk and many loaves of bread every week. Little bodies grow and clothing needs to be replaced. We need school supplies…. life requires me to shop.

As we approach the Holidays I just feel overwhelmed. I love to give gifts. My love language though is more doing or serving or working for them. So I have 2 roadblocks to gift giving. I can’t wrap up what I love to give and I have to shop! Argh.

Last year after Christmas I discovered my passion. Creating story books. I have created baby books, little quite books with my kids as the stars, genealogy books, family yearbooks, playing cards, posters, graduation cards…. I have been creating and giving in a way that I love! I have discovered that my gifts are much loved and treasured ( no longer discarded and forgotten). I have gotten requests. My daughter who went to college this year asked for me to create something for her to see her family daily. My mother wants to know what is going on with her grandkids. She loves the albums with stories about each grandchild. My little guys LOVE their baby albums. My middle guys are so excited when they see me on the computer creating their baby books.

I have decided that the difference is my ‘come from’. I love designing, I love serving, I love my family with an intensity that hurts sometimes. When those components combine I am truly giving something from my heart. Those are gifts that are treasured.

This year I have scanned in all the family photos that I could get my hands on and I am organizing them by family. Everyone related to my side and everyone related to David’s side. I am creating a dvd of all of the family photos (I have some incredible generational photos that none of them have ever seen). I have spent a year scanning and preparing. I am working on my childhood story…Before I was your mother for my kids. I also have been working with my father-in-law to get his story into print. I also have designed some awesome posters for the kids. For our children these gifts tend to be treasured stocking stuffers. For our extended family they are treasured gifts. These books and gifts are of excellent quality, I am not handing them a cut and paste pile of papers. I am not bagging on traditional scrapbooking. If I had the ability and love of it my traditional scrapbook gifts would be of excellent quality. I am just completely a clod with scrapbooking. I love designing but it won’t translate to traditional scrapbooking. I am just filled with gratitude this season that I am not tromping through the malls trying to find a trinket, gadget or widget that my parents don’t have and they will likely not need or even want. I am spending my precious time pouring over memories, bringing stories to life, connecting our family generations back. Bringing a sense of connection, purpose and mission to those I love. Because of the new template gallery I was able to finish a book for a “great” grandma with story in 3 hours.

I am actually excited for this holiday season. I have always loved Christmas, it represents all that is great in humanity but I have always DREADED the shopping experience.

Have a beautiful Holiday Season. Give from your heart. It doesn’t have to mean extreme expense. It probably means effort because that is what we do for those we love. Thank you for letting me share my thoughts with you. If you want to visit my website and see what lights my fire you will find it at www.CreatingForever.com



Family History Night

My family took this fabulous Sunday and scanned pictures from my childhood. It has been such a wonderful and sad experience at the same time. I am looking through all the memories, activities, births of both myself and my sisters. All is well, we are all healthy, happy, responsible people and yet there is a rift in the fabric of our family because of divorce. My parents are both good people who came from good people. Life is so difficult sometimes. I treasure these photos and I treasure this experience of sorting and re-living. I decided today I am going to make sure we pull out our albums and storybooks at least monthly but I am aiming at weekly. It has been such a neat thing that because of the simple little adorable deck of cards my 2 year old knows her grandparents, great grandparents. She has never met some of them but she is begining to make connections. As I am documenting their lives I see those connections growing and deepening. What a gift. I consider it such a gift to come from where I have. I’ve not always felt that way. I am reminded as I am often lately to enjoy each moment. When my kids come to ask me a question no matter how pressing what I am doing feels to me I am blessed when I look them in the eye and really ponder what they are asking. When my baby or twins cuddle in my lap and want a story, I get to just put aside the dishes that never stay clean anyway or the vacuuming that needs to be redone daily, I just get to sit and cuddle and read and smell their hair and feel their sweet little bodies so warm and soft. With our oldest daughter now at college I really get how fast it happens. I am so grateful for these moments. I am so grateful for the memories of my childhood and the memories we make daily. My hope for you this week as it is for myself:  Make great memories, begin documenting your life.  Have a fabulous week! Susan Taylor




Digital Storybooking/ Scrapbooking

I’ve always had a bit of an attitude about scrapbooking. I love the idea of it but because I am so completely inept at it even the word bugs me. I have tried through the years. It was my only option when putting together my oldest children’s memory books. I eventually gave it up because they were just homely.

My mother in law working on her Legacy book for her children is what got me investigating my options for publishing. I agreed to assist her in getting it published. I was brought to tears in that process. I was dealing with several online publishers and finally I got a referral from my friend who has published many books for her company LEMI. She sent me to her publisher. Loved them, they were so much easier to deal with than the online publishers!!!! It is far from what I do now but it certainly suited me then. My mother in law’s book came out pretty good.

What she wrote and the way she compiled it looks great but I was responsible for the cover and frankly I didn’t know how to do it. I hired the company to do it at $60 and hour and he did exactly what I told him to and it looks a bit like a funeral program. It is so conservative and plain and just the way it is set up, not the best. Mom in law was happy but it bugs me.

Right after publishing these books and sending them off to Mom in law to distribute to her progeny I went to lunch with my friend and she showed me the cutest little book. It was just a tiny 5×5 that was written by a grandmother for her grandson who’s father was killed in Iraq. The little boy was so sad because he couldn’t remember what his father looked like. It was very touching. The book itself was beautiful, professionally bound, hardcover, full color. She didn’t tell me much at the luncheon, I didn’t encourage a ‘sales pitch’, I was however intrigued. I went home and searched out the company that produced the book. It is Heritage Makers. I have since learned a lot about the company as I have gone to work for them. I LOVE IT. There isn’t one thing I have come across that is questionable. Their help center is amazing, the compensation plan is great. The company is so concerned with their consultants making money and making it worth their time and efforts that they have gone to great lengths to give many options. It has opened my eyes and opened doors for me that I hadn’t before conceived. When I first joined their company I did it because I know me and I know that I will tell everyone about the companies and services I love, in that way I am a bit of a Maven (The Tipping Point). I decided because I know myself I may as well at least get free publishing out of it. I have ended up getting so much more.

My children love their books, my family is enjoying our gifts a heck of a lot more. I have gained control of the mess and clutter of our lives. We are scanning and organizing all of our documents and photos. Joining with Heritage Makers has led us on an incredible journey.

My design skills have improved so drastically that I have begun designing websites for a couple of the businesses I have been interacting with. I have designed many books, I designed and had published the system that I created and have used for many years in keeping my documents in an easy to carry format (Digi-prep Docs) I have had the opportunity to assist many people in writing their family history. It has been such a blessing. I have really enjoyed the ride. We go to reunion next week and they will announce the new products and all of the exciting stuff, I am finding that I am so excited, reunion is happening at disneyland and I think that is very appropriate. I felt the family history monkey on my back and never realized what it was. I have enjoyed the process of writing the stories and getting organized and it has truly freed up my mind for other things! Start writing your story, if you want assistance, contact me I would love to assist you. Do something that lights your fire, grows your brain and builds relationships at the same time! If you want to add to your income, this is a great way to do that as well. If you want to get some ideas here are a couple of my projects. This one is Riley, my baby’s book, she eats breakfast and tells me the “story”. This my twins book, this is actually the first book I ever designed. Riley’s little book is just a template but this one is my own creation. Here are the ‘quiet cards’ I made for Riley, I carry them in my purse and she knows they are there and when it is required of her to sit quietly she always whispers to me to please let her see her cards. So cute and so effective. I have learned that it is important not to procrastinate the family things. I just sent my oldest daughter off to college and it is such a joy to me but also a bit of a reckoning. Have I prepared her, does she know where she comes from? I truly believe that knowing where you come from can help you decide where to go. Sometimes it is by the process of elimination but often it is by inspiration. My family is everything to me. I have grown closer to my parents while preparing gifts for them and assisting them in gathering their stories. It has been a joy in my life. My two cents whether it is worth that much or not is DO NOT PROCRASTINATE! Life is uncertain, the only thing I know is that I am here right now, I am capable right now, I am the best one to write my own story and to document my children’s early lives as are you for your own family. Your kids will not remember the furniture you had or have fond feelings about the car that you drove but they WILL guaranteed treasure the gifts of the heart that you leave behind.  I still prefer Storybooking to scrapbooking but whatever I call it as long as it is digital I have discovered I have a gift and a talent.




The Art of Preparedness
September 8, 2008, 7:16 pm
Filed under: Ideas for getting it together!

I have this mindset that I need to “get it done” that applies to everything and no matter how many times that life has reminded me that there really is no such thing I still go right back to that thought. I am goal oriented apparently. It works better in some areas of my life than others. When I do dishes or clean a room I feel such a moment of accomplishment and then one of my adorable little 5 year old twins chooses that room to play in because the floor is a clean canvas in which to explore his toys or build a fort (out of my couch cushions). I think I am finally getting to the point that I am okay with the process of life. I am 40, I am a slow learner. I am learning to enjoy the moment and not get so hung up in the finished product. Not that I wouldn’t love for the dishes to stay done or the house to stay immaculate and dust free or for my perfect haircut to last more than 4 weeks. Kids are never really raised, we continue to parent and model throughout their lives, the house will never be clean all at once, and my food storage cannot sit down in the sanctuary that we keep it untouched and ready for an emergency we pray will never happen. Tonight is our night to reorganize and inventory what we have, use what needs to be replaced and make a list of what we need to add.

There is so much to keep track of. Is it an art form or a business? I need to create a monthly reminder to remind me to add and check different components. I need to be reminded to add to our inventory when I add to our storage, replace the water, replenish our first aid kit. A couple of the ways I am going to enjoy the ART of PREPAREDNESS is by adding a set of personalized playing cards to my 72 hour kits, I will make a set for each of my kids with a matching game for my baby, I am going to create a book of family stories of courage- I am going to interview our family members and have them recall a time of great struggle or disaster and to share any gifts or good that came out of it in the end. I am going to design a calendar through Heritage Makers that will give me regular reminders and I will divide up the things I need to add into 12 sections one for each month and perhaps November and April I will put reminders in to update my documents. I can add some cute pics of the kids along with all the family birthdays and voila a valuable and fun tool. I am an artistic person and I do LOVE the process of making the ongoing projects in life beautiful and containing them in a beautiful form. Nothing has to be ugly or boring. I am learning to enjoy the process, in some cases I am happy right now not to hate the process. Where I used to resent some of my ‘duties’ I now look for the beauty in them. Doing dishes is a great time to work side by side with my treasured young ones and have one on one time. Having time to think sometimes in this world of noise and immediate gratification is getting to be more of a challenge for me, vacuuming is such a great pondering time, my kids think I really love to vacuum but the truth is I love that I can’t hear anything else while I do it. I think I subconsciously chose the loudest vacuum possible:). I also believe wholeheartedly that I picked the best JOB! I add to our family income in a substantial way doing what I love! I am a personal publishing coach for Heritage Makers. I get to put my hands on other peoples family treasures ‘their pictures’ and scan them for them, I really value that experience, I am so silly but it feels to me the equivalent of dipping both hands into a treasure box filled with precious stones and letting them pour out between my fingers! I get to coach people through the publishing process – I get to introduce individuals that never thought they were capable to a whole new world of creativity and design and the healing and love that grows from giving these as gifts or working together with family members on a project. I love the sense of confidence and accomplishment that I get to witness being birthed in my clients and it FEELS GOOD! My message is enjoy the process, anything can be a work of art… dishes, laundry, emergency preparedness. Enjoy your beautiful life!



Digitizing your photos and documents is a great way to protect them

It truly is more than a great way, it is the best way. Digitized photos and documents are easy to back-up, it is a snap to burn them onto archive quality CD’s or DVD’s.

Digitizing our documents has freed up a huge amount of storage space for our family. It has allowed us to protect it by keeping several copies out of our general vicinity (this is vital!).

Digitizing our photos has allowed me to organize them and create fabulous professionally printed products out of them. I am in the process of creating baby books for all of our kids. I have the 30 pound scrapbook albums for the first few of your posterity but life got busy and scrapbooking is messy and expensive. So I tucked everything away for the day that I could fit it in. That day has come in the form of PERSONAL PUBLISHING!

This has truly become my passion. I love it. No mess, my kids can handle and even sleep with their books if they want. If they ruin them I can easily replace them unlike the scrap booked albums. This is also a benefit in the Emergency preparedness vein, all of my projects can be reordered at any date in the future if they are destroyed, I simply have to reorder them when I am able. I have loved creating the books dedicated to my little people and as I began working on these I decided that I want to document our parents lives. They have so much to say and to share with their posterity. SOOO….

I talked my parents and my husbands parents into letting me scan in all the family photos. It is a huge job but it has been so worth it. This will be our Christmas gift to our families.

Digitizing your photos and documents can be time consuming if you are using a flatbed scanner. I decided that I have such a passion for it I needed to make it my business so we bought a high end batch scanner that I am using for our own photos but also for clients. This was an expensive road. If you don’t have half a million photos (slight exaggeration) then you might just want to hire someone to do it. My advice on hiring is:

Make sure the company is local. Some bigger companies that offer the lower prices (for big bulk orders) send their photos overseas! It would be best if your photos don’t leave town without you. Some companies will send a consultant with a scanner to your home! That may be a convenience to you or it may be a nuisance.

Work out the shortest turn around time possible. I have a friend who’s photos were burned up in the warehouse that they were being stored in before being scanned. Bummer.

Storage of your photos is another issue. Regular use CD’s and DVD’s are reported to have a lifespan of 2-8 years. I personally think multiple storage methods are best- I believe in overkill. Because after all the generations of photos that we now have in our collection are irreplaceable. You can use a memory stick but I would back it up with an archival CD or DVD (placed in a safety deposit box outside of your general vicinity)

We use a password protected thumb drive to hold a digital copy of all of our documents and photos inside our Digi-prep docs kit- It would make me sick to have our originals destroyed, but my living children are more important and they have evacuation priority. I know we can reproduce every single photo with our digital copies. If hasty evacuation were necessary, my kids and my Digi-prep Docs are what take priority. My plan for Christmas is to give a photo disc to each member of both sides of our family with applicable photos which will bring joy to our family and also ensure multiple back-ups for everyone.

Software improves with every year that goes by. To me that meant that I didn’t have to stress out so much over my photo organizational system. That was always my hang up. I just scanned them in and as software has improved and come down in price I purchased a system that I have been using to sort my photos into detailed files. Heritage Makers online design studio is very soon coming out with a system that will allow you to sort and share your photos with other family members in full resolution! This is where I do all my online publishing and I love it!

I don’t have the best opinion of online storage companies in general. I have experience with Heritage Makers and trust them with my photos but I have read up on other storage facilities and have discovered that some store thumbnails and when you go to retrieve them you don’t have full pixilation. You should be sure before you trust any source. I would NOT store digital copies of my vital records on any online source!! Be wise where you store your documents.

However you do it, Do it! Get your photos into a digital format. For more information you can visit my website www.creatingforever.com. Having your photos professionally digitized isn’t as expensive as you might think, My fees are .39 a scan from 1-100, .29 a scan from 100-500, .19 a scan for batches over 500.



The next step- The second most important and practical tool in my arsenal

Okay. You have your vital records photocopied hole punched and inserted into your folder and your health information copied in. The next step is to collect names, phones, addresses and account #’s of all of your family’s service providers. This list will include: Doctors, dentists, accountant, insurance agents, insurance company, auto mechanic, utility company, DMV, banking institutions…. You get the picture? There is a comprehensive list in your kit.

This is a bit time consuming- less so if you do it at regular bill paying time- but you are gathering information that will come in handy many times over. I use my Digi-prep Docs kit all the time. I take it with me when I need to handle business while waiting for my kids to finish their classes or sports practice. I pull it out if I need to call the mortgage company for a question. I have a great filing system, it is organized but it is still bulky and it takes more time for me to dig through the files than to grab my Digi-prep Docs. I can grab and go. This is invaluable to me. I am a mom of 9, we are landlords as well as tenants, business owners. Just like you, our lives are full and I welcome anything that helps me to multi-task and make use of what used to be dead time so that I can spend the time I used to be attached to my filing system doing what I love. Another bonus for me is that this method saves my filing system. My husband is a menace in our filing cabinet. He doesn’t have the patience to put things back, this makes it simple for him.

So to re-cap. Get ready, I promise you it will be worth it: In case of emergency it is an absolute have to- if you have this information gathered and your identification with it, it will help you put your life back together much quicker and less painfully. On a day to day basis it will assist you by helping you manage your time more efficiently.

Begin gathering phone #’s, addresses and account #’s with your contact names if applicable to get this information into your emergency preparation kit. Nothing is too trivial. Even your dog groomer could be important or at least convenient.



Take 3 baby steps…

Okay, so you see the need but where do you start? Simple. Lets begin what will be a bit of a journey but just for now take these baby steps:

1. Order your kit at www.Digi-prepDocs.com

2. Get a photocopy of the vital documents for each family member. Birth certificate, social security cards, drivers license…

3. Collect a small recent photo of each family member. Begin making notes on health issues of each member so that when your kit arrives you can just fill in the blanks. For example, allergies, medications, any health conditions, anything that might be needed for emergency care….




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